Thursday, May 10, 2012

The Jar of Life

A friend of mine posted this story on Facebook. I was about to skip over it, but I am glad I stopped and read it. These are wise words, and I am going to share them here for you all.
I hope you all take something away from this, because sometimes it's hard to figure out what is important in life.

I do not know who originally wrote this story, but whoever did was a wise person, and I am glad I got the reminder about what is important in life.
The Mayonnaise Jar and Two Cups of Coffee

When things in your lives seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 cups of coffee.

A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.

The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar. He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They agreed it was.

The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar was full. The students responded with an unanimous "yes."

The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty space between the sand. The students laughed.

"Now," said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you to recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the important things--your family, your children, your health, your friends and your favorite passions--and if everything else was lost and only they remained, your life would still be full.

The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and your car.

The sand is everything else--the small stuff. "If you put the sand into the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are important to you.

"Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Play with your children. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first--the things that really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."

One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee represented. The professor smiled. "I'm glad you asked.

It just goes to show you that no matter how full your life may seem, there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."
What is the lesson of the story?
Well I think it means not to sweat the small stuff and take care of the important aspects of your life first and foremost. 
What are your priorities in life?
My Top Priorities (Golf Balls) are my Relationship, Family/Friends, Health, Pets, etc.
Next (Pebbles) are my Hobbies, Religion, Home, Traveling/Vacations, Jobs, etc.
And then it's all the rest (Sand).

What about you?


  1. I just read that one; loved it! ^_^ Very good story! I don't really want to list out my priorities, but I know what's important to me, and it's a good reminder to stay focused on those things. <3!

  2. Makes ya stop and think, doesn't it?

  3. i love your post , and im glad i read it , thank you kat for sharing... it's very interesting

    1. I'm glad you liked it. You're welcome Hicham.

  4. That was AWESOME!!! Thanks for posting that. Putting your priorities in order is the key to a happy and healthy life.

    1. I agree wholeheartedly. I love you.